Ok. To start, some of you may have just cringed that I would
DARE be writing about booze! Cobbers drink water, right? Well, that is part of
the point of this particular post.
Alcohol is so taboo to discuss in a public setting in the
states. Especially at Concordia. For example, when that one chick on facebook
posts a status like, “Omg! Margaritas and Dirty Martinis all night at da club
wit my gurls!” we all look at the screen and say, “I’m judging you. So hard.”
And DON’T EVEN THINK about mentioning it on campus to
students! Holy goodness. As an OL, it’s just something you don’t really discuss
with your clubbies, unless they ask a specific question about it.
And FOR A FACULTY to mention drinking/going out…. Woah. Slow
your boat guys.
All of this is fine and dandy and just the way we do it in
the States, specifically at Concordia. There isn’t necessarily anything wrong
with it, it’s just how we do.
…..Ireland is not this way.
First of all, they’re approach to drinking is a lot
different than in the US. The legal drinking age for beer and wine is 16, and
hard liquor is 18. It’s just a part of their culture. So much to the point that
IDing you is rare, because honestly, they don’t care. Everyone drinks, and is
very open about it. For example, I saw a family of two teenage boys and their
parents at the pub. On a Friday night. Dad was buyin’. ……WHAT?! The idea of
going out to a popular bar on a Friday night with my parents and brother with
my Dad buying me drinks all night just blows my mind. We don’t do that in the
states. We do, however, do that in Ireland.
As I said, everyone does it, and they are incredibly open
about it. So much so that it comes up in everyday conversation. All of the
time. In what we in the states would deem totally inappropriate
venues/situations to bring it up in.
Such as with your taxi driver.
And in the checkout line at the grocery store.
And college orientation.
And college tours.
And the bank while you are opening a checking account.
During orientation, every other sentence has been someone
with a knowing smile saying, “You’re going to have a great time in Ireland!”
Now, in the US, people may say something like that, with that same knowing smile…
but usually, they would just leave it there and let you interpret as you will.
Nope. Not in Ireland. To follow that, they’ll say something
to the effect of “Make sure you go out on school nights during the week,
because that’s when all of the Irish students are here! So if you need to do
work, do it on weekends. But you won’t really need to do serious work until a
week before finals. So don’t worry about it. Just go out and have fun! And
don’t worry about morning classes, everyone (including your professor) shows up
really late anyways.”
On the tour of the campus, I counted how many times our
student ambassador mentioned alcohol/going out. Let’s just put it this way... I
stopped counting. Within the first five minutes, we were at about 15. And the
second place on our tour was the College Bar. Which is similar to the Maize
(instead of Maize fries, we have College Bar “crisps” or potato chips. There is
crack in them… I’m sure of it). Except with a full bar. That is open all day.
And according to our tour guide, is awesome for starting your night off when
going out downtown, especially on MONDAY and THURSDAY nights.
……………………………………………………..
Our group went to the Bank of Ireland to open banking
accounts over here. Courtney and I got this lovely lady that was helping us.
She was dressed incredibly professionally, and it is a nice bank. A very classy
business setting.
We got some wonderful recommendations from her about which
pubs to go to. (We didn’t ask for this, mind you, she just told us like it was
part of her job).
The next day, when we came back to put money in our
accounts, she saw us and the first thing she said was, “How’s the head girls?!”
….I’m sorry. Did she just ask us how hungover we are? At the
bank?
Recommendations are one thing, but that took us to a new
level. She also sat us down and asked us about our night the previous night.
When we told her we were exhausted so we ended up just staying at home and
watching TV and going to sleep, she just shook her head and was like “I don’t
believe you for a second. Don’t be shy. What did you do?”
…..No. Really. We stayed at home. And went to sleep. We were
tired.
She was like, “Oh. Really? Well, then be sure and go out
tonight because you’re probably nice and well rested!”
And then proceeded to give us a whole new list of
recommendations.
And that was just one lady at the bank. There is also a guy
and woman who seem to be managers (?) or something who came and talked to the
students during orientation. They walk around and kind of supervise. We had
essentially the same conversations with them.
It’s just crazy to me how different the attitude towards
alcohol and partying is over here. I’m not saying one way is right or wrong, I’m
just saying it’s different. A new experience.
Just could not see us bellying up to the bar banana asking for a Jack Daniels. but your sure old enough. But I love ya know matter what you decide about anything. Hugs and kisses Banana
ReplyDeleteWhyyyyyy did I have to be in choir?? I should have gone to Ireland! dumb dumb dumb dumb. I hope you have an amazing time and some good craic, Hannah!
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